Abhiwarya's Swayamwar
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From Our Bollywood correspondent
Abhishek Bachchan, the first family's sole heir to the Bollywood throne was sitting on his throne (The Commode) and taking a dump and he thought about all those great moments he has enjoyed with Karisma/Dipannita/Rani/x/y/Aishwarya. Looking at all the choices in front of him, he came to the conclusion that Aishwarya is probably the best deal.
Looking at his movie career, he probably thought that luck was on his side and his Guru would probably be his singular sole hero-hit. Better business sense means, you ask for what you want when things are going your way. After all he has prayed openly across the country for upturn in his movie career and silently prayed for his family to consent upon his marriage choice - "Aishu".
Eventually even Mr and Mrs Bachchan senior were suckered into agreement. They walked 10 kilometers from their home to Sidhivinayak temple. If not for anything else, it was a good exercise.
The Abhishek-Aishwarya marriage christened as "Abhiwarya" has elicited extreme reactions across the country.Here are a few excerpts attached from our readers:-
Excerpt #1I am stunned and saddened at the responses to the confirmation of Aishwarya Rai and Abhishek Bachchan's engagement. Why can't people shut up about Aishwarya? Yes, she went out with Salman Khan and Viveik Oberoi earlier...so what? Abhishek was engaged to Karisma Kapoor and dated Dipannita Sharma, amongst others. Why don't they talk about his affairs? He's been linked to many women. Most people don't marry the first person they date; why should Aishwarya be an exception? She has the right to be with or not to be with anybody she wants. Aishwarya's past is nobody's business, just like Abhishek's isn't. And, of course, there are the often-repeated comments about her plastic beauty and people actually having the nerve to say she's not good enough for the Bachchans...what the hell? Who are they to decide? Do they know her personally? All these comments just show India's attitude towards women; a woman may not have a past, but a man can do whatever he wants. A woman should not be so good-looking or successful. So much for the emancipation of women. Aishwarya conducts herself with dignity and grace, so she's plastic. She doesn't like talking about her relationships and who can blame her? If this is the way people react, no wonder she keeps quiet. She's probably been cautioned about the vicious and slanderous nature of people's attitudes towards beautiful, successful women. It's really disturbing to see so-called progressive and urban Indians' attitudes towards women. Bravo, India. Bravo.
Excerpt #2Amitabh Bachchan is on cloud nine after son Abhishek announced that he was marrying Aishwarya Rai, a decision that was hanging fire for more than a year.
Asked when the marriage would take place, Amitabh said: "Not right way. But yes, very shortly. Like every father I'm over the moon, specially at this juncture when Abhishek has delivered such a sledgehammer performance in Guru. "
The wedding is expected to take place in February.
"Amitabh Bachchan is so happy with this alliance that he himself called up a journalist and said, 'Congratulations, Abhishek proposed to Aishwarya and she has accepted'," a source close to the family said.
The engagement on Sunday evening of Bollywood's hottest couple puts at rest all speculation on whether the marriage will happen or not. Close friends feel that their love has withstood the long, rigorous test of time.
Apparently, some family members were initially against the match but finally they also came around.
“Everybody – be it fans, media or family members – were against their marriage because of Aishwarya's flings in the past and the myth that she brings bad omen for her boyfriends. They warned Abhishek 'if you marry her your career will be ruined' and insisted that she is very unlucky.”
"They tried to dissuade him by talking about their age difference (Abhishek is about to turn 31 and Aishwarya is 33) and that she is a manglik (born under a particular astrological configuration that the superstitious believe is not auspicious for the husband). But Abhishek didn't listen to anybody and withstood all the opposition," added the source.
Abhishek's first love story with Karisma Kapoor didn't have a happy ending. Before joining films he was dating the actress and they had got engaged too, but they later broke off over reported interference by Karisma's mother, former actress Babita, who didn't want her daughter to marry the then flop actor.
In 2005, Aishwarya came into his life after her break up with co-star Viveik Oberoi. Before that she had an affair with Salman Khan. Abhishek and Aishwarya appeared as lead couple in Kuch Naa Kaho, Dhaai Akshar Prem Ke, Umrao Jaan and the just-released Guru.
In the first three films, their on-screen chemistry failed to impress and the movies sank without a trace. Thankfully, Guru, released on Friday, is making waves at the box-office.
"They said that Abhishek should go with Rani Mukherji because they make a good couple. Some said that their romance is a mere publicity stunt but the fact of the matter is that they were waiting for a hit. Their marriage talk was going on for quite sometime; it didn't happen in the last few days," said the source.
The engagement took place at Amitabh Bachchan's residence and among those present at the ceremony were Aishwarya's family and industrialist Anil Ambani and his wife, Tina. Close friend Karan Johar was also there. Earlier, the roka ceremony was performed at Aishwarya's house.
Reports had been flying thick and fast for the past few months that an engagement was on the cards, particularly after Aishwarya accompanied Abhishek and his parents to perform rituals at a revered Varanasi temple.
Last February, Amitabh's brother Ajitabh Bachchan had told the media that he went to meet a Bangalore-based astrologer Chandrashekhar Swamy with the horoscopes of Aishwarya and Abhishek. Apparently, Abhishek's octogenarian grandmother Teji Bachchan is keen to see him married.
FAQ about "Abhiwarya" alliance
Will Aishwarya act after marriage?
Highly unlikely in the immediate future. She is already 33. She better go make some babies, otherwise Bacchan Jrs will be childless.
Will Abhi's popularity stay high after marriage?
I suppose so, since other actors like Aamir, Shahrukh, Hritik seem to be doing well.
Will Abhi and Aish kids be beautiful?
Most probably yes
Will Salman and Vivek gang up against Abhi?
Probably improbable.
Will Amar Singh and Sahara group sponsor the marriage?
Both will try and sponsor some side deals with the big guys.
Will Amitabh Bachchan invite Sonia Gandhi for the wedding?
Yes.Please check with Manmohan Singh for the RSVP.
What will Aishwarya dress for the wedding?
Clothes.The last I checked the website. It seems she is wearing a Benaris lehenga
What will happen if Abhishek's career goes downhill?
There are a few alternative options for Abhishek
1.Live off his parents
2.Ask Aishwarya to return to Bollywood
3.The Bunt community to which Aishwarya belongs is traditionally good in the Udipi restaurant business and Amitabh is famously associated with Benaras paan. They can definitly have a go in the Udipi Business. We are a religious organization. How do we invite the Bachchan's for religious appearance?
Bless you for having us in your prayers. Please contact Hon. MP Amar Singh for appointment scheduling.Do the Bachchan's accept invitations from non-Hindu organizations?
Yes. Mr Amitabh Bachchan did act in Amar Akbar Anthony. That is ample proof of his secular credentials.